20th May 2012 , Posted by Darren Lim - No Comments

Happily Ever After

Happily Ever After Just last week, Evelyn and I were invited to our friends’ wedding banquet. Looking at the newly weds bask in the well-wishes of the invited guests, we were reminded of how, not too many years ago, we were walking down the aisle ourselves and beaming from ear-to-ear. Because our wedding was captured on film » Read More

1st May 2012 , Posted by Darren Lim - No Comments

Mind your manners……Please!

Mind your manners… … please! Remember the good old days when we were taught to sing this song in school: “Courtesy is for free, courtesy is for you and me…”, I remember how our parents would take great pains (on our buttocks, especially, when we don’t show it! ) to make it a  way of life for » Read More

10th April 2012 , Posted by Darren Lim - No Comments

Technology Vs Human Touch

Technology vs Human Touch Remember the time when the first computers were made commercially available and the promise was that with a computer, time and energy would be freed up to pursue other things in life, like having more time for interests and family? Doesn’t seem that the promise has materialized, has it? With technology bringing about » Read More

1st April 2012 , Posted by Darren Lim - No Comments

The Good Kampong Days

The Good Old Kampong Days Remember those days when we would catch spiders, play with marbles and get wet in “lonkangs” (aka drains) to catch fishes… … or in my instance, go to the beach to swim in the sea, without my parents knowing, only to end up getting a good session of caning after that! » Read More

12th March 2012 , Posted by Darren Lim - 1 Comment

Mummy + Daddy = My Whole World

I remembered when Evelyn was pregnant with our very first child, Kristen, a friend who has three kids visited us and left this very somber reminder to me,   “Be warned that after your child arrives, you (Darren) will find that Evelyn will have very little time for you.” (ie she will be busy taking care » Read More

1st March 2012 , Posted by Darren Lim - No Comments

Boys Should Be Boys

Recently, Way (my youngest son) asked to be shorn “BOTAK”! Actually it had been a while since the first time he asked for that, but his mother and sister were adamant that it should not be done!  Evelyn cited reasons like, it’s going to be Christmas soon and it’s going to be cold, then later » Read More

10th February 2012 , Posted by Darren Lim - No Comments

Spare the rod, spoil the child

Was it the hustle bustle of visiting families during  Chinese New Year that got to my children, making them tired and irritable and therefore very annoying!  Or was it just me—– tired and irritable from the same and therefore terribly annoyed?   Either way,  Kristen , Jairus and Way’s behaviour seemed incredibly out of control! So » Read More

1st February 2012 , Posted by Darren Lim - 2 Comments

Will I lay down my life?

“A man chasing after his stolen car jumps onto it and struggles to take control of the wheel. After a few exchange of punches, the car thief loses control of the car and hits a tree nearby, flinging the man onto the road while the car thief escapes, injured. There are people at the scene » Read More

24th January 2012 , Posted by Darren Lim - 1 Comment

When a man loves his children!

When A Man Loves his children…. Some years ago, if anybody were to ask me, “What would be the ideal age to get married and have kids? “  My answer would be 26 and 28 respectively. And now if someone were to ask me that same question, the answer would still be the same. But, you’re now » Read More

10th January 2012 , Posted by Darren Lim - 3 Comments

“Precious Moments”

Precious Moments After 3 kids and with the eldest already 7, I’m finally blogging my life as dad! Or rather, finally have the time to blog about fatherhood, is this late or what?  Anyway, better late than never!  And the first thing I thought I’d write about would be on “ Precious Moments” because that was » Read More

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