3rd December 2012 , Posted by Actonel - 2 Comments

Doing IVF – The Learning Points

It’s finally made sense to me why there are so many blogs out there by women during their two week wait it’s because women at these stage have quite a bit of time on their hands, are trying their best not to do anything that could be counted as physical exertion, and, well, women » Read More

16th November 2012 , Posted by Actonel - 1 Comment

Egg-citing times

We’ve just completed the embryo transfer (ET) and I’m trying desperately to “rest” — whatever that means! There are various opinions on the internet forums on what someone should do after ET, ranging from complete bed rest for 3 days (!!) and going for walks to stimulate blood flow to the uterus, but honestly there » Read More

10th November 2012 , Posted by Actonel - 2 Comments

The First Post – and the first go at IVF

30 Oct 2012 – I’m typing this out from my phone sitting in the KKIVF clinic waiting for my day 8 scan, after 3 days of orgalutran to inhibit ovulation and 3 days of a lot of puregon to stimulate the follicles. Agreeing to blog for Maybe Baby wasn’t a tough decision, since all I » Read More

27th October 2012 , Posted by Yi Lin - 5 Comments

The Privilege of Parenthood

(Warning: The thoughts and views that I set out below have been swirling around in my head for a few weeks now. So this entry may come across as a bit of a rant. if you don’t want to have to deal with some blogger-angst right now, feel free to move along now to the » Read More

6th October 2012 , Posted by Yi Lin - 3 Comments

Happy Fridays Are Here Again

Thank you, everyone, for your kind words after I wrote about the loss of Twin B. It’s been two weeks since the ordeal. While unforgettable, we have found the strength to move on from it (at least, for now, until I receive another sweet comment from a reader saying how my entry made them cry, which » Read More

23rd September 2012 , Posted by Yi Lin - 23 Comments

Goodbye, Twin B

Dear Twin B, Two days ago, we found out that we had lost you. 21 September had been a day that we had been looking forward to, so very much. We had been impatiently waiting out the past three weeks, so that we could see our twin babies again. Your daddy had an important conference call scheduled » Read More

20th August 2012 , Posted by Yi Lin - 16 Comments

Stage 5: The Call

I stumbled upon a line in somebody’s blog last week: “Good stories don’t have predictable endings. So let go of your silly little plans and embrace the journey.” The IVF story is just that: unpredictable. This is no Choose Your Own Adventure story. There is no Option (A) and Option (B) when you read down to the » Read More

6th August 2012 , Posted by Yi Lin - 7 Comments

Stage 4: HAPPY NURSES’ DAY!

1 August 2012 We were scheduled for the embryo transfer procedure at 9.30am. Today, we would find out how many embryos made it from the 22 eggs that were introduced to the hungry army of sperm on 30 July. The weather was nice and sunny. I was feeling great. Rather hungry. So I chowed down on a » Read More

1st August 2012 , Posted by Yi Lin - 5 Comments

Stage 3: Egg Round-Up!

Hello folks! Ready for more stories on my yolks? Ok, bad introduction. Scratch that. We left off with my last ultrasound scan on 18 July, with instructions to keep jabbing myself until I return for my next scan on 26 July. All that, I dutifully did. 26 July (Lucrin Day 23, Puregon Day 8)(Period Cycle Day 14): Dan and » Read More

27th July 2012 , Posted by Yi Lin - 4 Comments

Stage 2: The Egg Station

So where were we…. ah yes: BEING AN EGG FARMER 13 July (Lucrin Day 10)(Period Day 1): My period arrived on my tenth day on Lucrin. I had completely forgotten to expect my period to come as per normal. I was caught unaware when it came, while I was seated at my office desk, with a » Read More

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